It’s so easy to go into the wrongness of what we have done when a mistake has been made. And how many of us actually use ‘mistakes’ and ‘wrongness’ as a way of creating change? As a way of getting better and better at things? You could try asking instead:
- What’s right about this I’m not getting?
- What’s right about me that I’m not getting?
What if everything could just be choice? If you’ve got to go to the wrongness in order to change you, are are going to spend (especially with how much change you are willing to actually receive) all day going to wrongness of you? Cute!! Would you like to make a different choice now? What if you could just choose change, rather than create some not so fun thing first to make you change? What if you didn’t have to ‘feel bad’ before you could choose change? This reality makes it wrong to change your mind. What if choice is actually the source of change? Could you have a lot more fun with that? How does it get even better than that?
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