When you choose for you and your reality, you start to create the life and business you would like to have. You start to create the possibility of more joy, more ease and a whole lot more abundance! When you choose for everyone else first, you end up living someone else’s life, and nothing ever quite works how you would like it to! How is that working for you?
What is amazing about you is the choice and the courage that you have to keep choosing for you – whether or not it makes other people happy. You have to be willing to receive their judgments!
When you have close proximity to people, people’s judgments have more solidity, you can perceive their judgments a lot easier than if they are on the other side of the world. It is just an awareness, it’s just a difference, it is just the awareness of the solidity that they have when they are close by, and the lightness that they have when they are on the other side of the world. That’s sometimes why it is easier to choose for you when there is no-one else around!
The other side of this is that if you are trying to convince somebody else to be something that they are not, then that is unkind too, so ask, “What do they require of you?” Then you have the choice of whether you can deliver it or not. What do your parents require of you? What do your business colleagues require of you? What do your partners require of you?
We are so clever. We always have an awareness of what people require of us! And some of us wear ourselves out trying to deliver, without ever asking if we even desire to deliver, or even if it is required to deliver! Just because someone has an expectation doesn’t mean we have to deliver!
What if you could choose for you and create something far greater than you have ever created before? And how much more joy could you have in your business if you start operating from your awareness of what is required, rather than the collective points of view of everyone you know?